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Love?What does  this four letter word mean?Is it something that breaks or heals a heart?I guess this four letter i.e. “LOVE” does both.It depends on the situations and understanding about it.Some people gets hurt falling for one while some gets healed.Love is something that happens unknowingly and is a beautiful experience to go through.

According to the google search,’Love’ is a feeling related to attachments/affection towards someone.I don’t know what this word actually means?Easy to read the word but hardest when you go for it & try understanding it.I see people falling in love everyday.They fell into it and out after a period of time.Is it really love that fades as the time goes on?’Breakups’ and ‘Heartbreaks’ are major topics to gossip on now.Every new day a heart breaks.You can also un-love someone strikes me as amusing.

The romantic movies and my grandmother’s stories which everyone love and are fond of tells us that the perfect match are made in heaven but I see matches are being made on ‘Tinder’ & ‘Happen’ and are named as perfect match but not in heaven!So Is heaven retired from this beautiful job or the new technology is more trustworthy?I always wonder how are the matrimonial sites different from the online shopping sites?I see love being expressed with cheesy texts,everyday dates,gifts and how it has became synonymous with sex.

I see how people are falling in love with the bodies,with the shape,with the color of them.I see the beautiful poems piled up with dust in corner because Shakespeare’s lovers are now bae’s and babies.I look for albums but they tell me the photos are now live on social media.

I see people having crushes,new day new crush and are flirting because they don’t want to fall in love.Why? Valentine’ day is all about gifts,buy me one and I will be yours forever.Is this ‘forever’ really a forever?Is this love then?If this is love then I am better off alone.Maybe I will forever be a dreamer believing in my delusions of getting handwritten letters and most important someone’s time.

Maybe I will forever be the misfit who thinks forehead kisses are  much better than any other.Maybe I will always prefer long walks and not the long nights in the pubs. Maybe I will always want our dates to be not with the highest bills in a fancy restaurant but with the highest happy memories & the place doesn’t matter!

Maybe I will never want his wallet of money but his bag full of hidden demons he has been carring for so long.Maybe every weekend we will do a movie marathon sitting in pajamas than roaming in those malls wearing those high heels.

Maybe I will always make a cup of tea for him when he wakes up in the middle of the night scared because his fear & insecurities gripped him & not visiting a doctor/psychiatric for healing it. Tea does a great job I guess than the big big tablets!Hugs are so underrated but are the best and most effective one than the salines/injections in healing fast.

I will be the love I never received.I still don’t know what love is?All I know is object,materials and exchange of it,is not love.It amuses me and sometimes also feel bad that people are failing understanding the term love.Now a days infatuation are termed as love which is delusion of someone or their feelings.People need to understand the difference.

I don’t know what love is?But I would always prefer honesty,trust and time not the high cost gifts,movies/coffee dates & long long fake promises.

Give your reviews on love.And help me understanding it! 

Love,

Pranali

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Proximity:Little late but finally!❤


Why do I always think about him?Why am I always drawn to him?It is something I wanted to know since a long time.A little late but finally got to know!It always felt like their is something mysterious,something special and unique in that person for which I was waiting.Sometimes that person is a oxymoron.

Time is the thing that matters.No matter its late but its a lovely experience to go through.Life is too short to get tensed and annoy by thinking about things that have passed.Just love and feel the experience of falling for others.Its so good to see that in the “Generation of Selfishness”,how a person becomes so special to you and you actually care for them,Though a little late but finally!

When I paid attention to the emotions that traveled from my heart;I strongly felt something fascinating,Though late but finally did!I found someone with whom the time spent was memorable.Once in life you meet a person with whom you can be completely crazy with.But sometimes its the time that matters.You never know that when the person will leave,That doesn’t mean you will force the person to stay or beg to do that so.Just let them go.

Darling,Just remember the best will always stay by your side no matter how much time you need,So just live in the present and adore the time and live the way you wanna live.The experience is actually lovely and beautiful,I wish everyone should go through it once just to experience it in a beautiful way.

I wish it was that easy!

I wish everything that goes and come was easy to handle.I wish moving on from a relationship that can be any type of relationship was easy.I don’t know why people who are not meant to stay,comes in your life.If they are not meant forever then why destiny brings them & tends us to get attached.Is it karma or Is destiny checking our patience level to face a problem.I wish forgetting them was easy!

I wish it was easy to hate a person we love because they don’t want us to stay.I always wonder what would be the reason behind it?Am I that bad?But if that is so then the people who are still there by my side should also ask me to go away.Why only that one person?Why it is difficult to handle situation where we want a thing but simultaneously is unable to get it.I wish it was that easy to handle it!

Till now I never cared because I guess I was blindly sure about people who will never leave and I guess all are.But a point/stage comes where a person leave & I wish it was that easy to ask them to stay!Never craved or never had hopes for a person to stay.I don’t know why?I wish knowing the reason was that easy!This type of stage is where I started taking people seriously,decided to not be a juvenile anymore.I wish understanding people,their thoughts and situation was that easy for me!Never regretted being slow in understanding things.But a time comes where you surely will.But still in a dilemma because I don’t want to change & even don’t want the person to leave.I wish everything should be that easy!

I don’t know who the person is or how the person is,still want him to stay.I wish knowing him was that easy.Just want a chance to know about that person,I wish getting that chance was that easy!Is being sweet,childish,honest,real towards someone a crime?I wish being hard on people or treating them the same way they do was that easy!

But life is all about experimenting,adventure,facing everything fearlessly which you have to endure unknowingly or surprisingly.I wish understanding this was that easy for everyone!  

A letter to the future mate!❤

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To the loved future mate,
Hey there! I hope you will be glad to have me same as I am. I don’t know who will be this but I would like to tell that I want to have a sorted kind of relationship where there will be no need to give justification to each other over anything. I know you might wonder and worried about all the stuff which generally a relationship have. I would say that you don’t need to get worried about all those stuff because I would prefer your presence over all the costly gifts but that also does not mean that you will have to be around me for 24 hours. It’s okay if we don’t meet for days or a week. I would be fine as far as we have a strong bond. I don’t want you to waste your time where you will be thinking about two different things and will end getting stressed rather I would like you to spend time in the things that you love and I will wait for you until you get free for me. I would say that no matter what duration of time we spend, would be enough to give a peace state to us and our relationship.
According to me loving someone is not a waste of time because it’s just a phase where you truly respect the other and truly admire it. I know going on dates and spending time in the fancy restaurants and café are in trend but I would love if we just sit down somewhere in the middle of the empty roads or garden and have a quick rapid fire about the things going on each other’s head rather than spending time in drinking and dancing around in the pubs. I don’t want any kind of surprises everyday so I would say that stay relaxed because you don’t need to plan things overnight and which will result into having the dark circles under your eye with the laziness in your head throughout the next day.
I know all the boys out there have a mindset that girls always love when their boyfriends take them to malls for shopping for hours so you are lucky here because I will not waste your time here by just roaming in every shops because I am whole of a mess for choosing something. I would prefer sitting under a roof where we will just chill with Netflix ON in front of us if you are free and if you have work I will love to just stare at you while you work.
After reading this I know that you might be thinking what crazy girl she is but yes I am who I am. Love is all about understanding each other and it’s not at all necessary to spend all of your time on your partner instead help your partner grow first because after all happiness lies where there is presence of togetherness and mainly “LOVE”. I hope we only waste our time behind building us and our relationship strong rather than behind all those fancy trends so when some kind of hard times hits us (It shouldn’t) then the strong us will get us out from there. I know creating memories are important but memories are build up by combining small things around us where happiness of both the partner lies.
Take Care,
Yours,
Annoying Future mate.

Lockdown!

Wth is going on 2020? Is the only question running in everyone’s head right now. I too hoped that 2020 will be a good year without any kind of stress for me but this pandemic situation isn’t allowing me to get some chill. But if we see the other side of this situation which is helping in healing of the earth, healing someone’s stress, healing someone’s loneliness in their relationship and many more. When the lockdown started in our era which was around a month ago, I was not planned that what I am going to do staying home all the day. I had 21 days of chill and I was happy when it started.

This was one of the hardest decision for everyone to accept but also necessary. The disaster named CORONA is taking many lives away from their loved ones. Firstly all the strength to the ones who all are going through it and also to the ones who went to through it.

Everybody wants a peaceful day in today’s time but who wondered that everybody will get it altogether. I always wished a continuous 3-4 days vacations just for sleeping because my daily routine had became so busy that I don’t even get time to do things that I love. I always wished that I should atleast get 2 sundays per week. And life hits a dangerous surprise that is Corona Virus (Covid-19). It resulted into a complete lock down for 21 days so no going out for straight 21 days. A part of me was happy because I don’t need to decide what I have to wear every morning before going to the work. I can now work from home which is officially declared for everyone and I can work sitting on my bed wearing my comfortable pajamas along with the messed up hair.

 After all these thoughts, My quarantine day-1 passed a little boring because there was no work from the office and there was nothing to do as well. I missed the daily routine stuff, the time spent with my collegues and the work place and my desk and the lunch time and in short everything.

21 days lockdown! It literally felt that I am having my summer vacations which I had when I was in my school but no chance to travel. The first two days of lockdown were the same as the Sundays where I was the laziest person around who was like she never have to go back to her work and her studies again. The third day I was really mad and did not really liked the quarantine phase because I majorly started missing my daily routine. It was annoying me until the 6th day of the lockdown when I sat down and decided to utilize this time in a fruitful way because I am sure we won’t get such free time easily in our busy schedule.I would suggest to everyone take it as a blessing in disguise instead of stressing and getting bored. As I said that it was the 6th day of the lockdown where I decided to use the time in a fruitful way so firstly I started with my Yoga session which I was missing from last 2 weeks. I regularly started doing it which actually utilizes nearly 1.5 hour of my day. I have a shift of 8 hours for working from home but I actually work only for maximum 5 hours and the rest 3 hours I spend reading articles and blogs which will help me learn and grow. This was the just the starting though.

I felt writing about this because I am seeing people stressing about the extended lockdown. I know that it’s hard to stay at home when you all have never did it. Just a example, Coronavirus lockdowns globally have given parts of the natural world a rare opportunity to experience life with hardly any humans around. This was the another positive thing happening all over the world. The reduction in human activity has resulted in the increased visibility of animals and birds in public spaces so we all heard about this news. If the earth is healing then why we shouldn’t. There are many things you can do which you will never get chance to do when this pandemic situation comes to an end. Personally I am loving this phase. I have seen many trends running around like the first week of the lockdown, there were “cakes” baked on everyone’s story. The other week had the “Dalgona Coffee” and many more. Don’t get stressed I am not saying you have to do something productive just because all are doing. I am one of the laziest person who is not very much interested in the cooking stuff as I am a foodie around who prefer eating rather than cooking. I too was stressed that all my friends are utilizing their times in many good ways and are bringing out their talents but it’s okay to lie down on the floor and just stare to your ceiling because peace of mind is far more important than following the social trends and challenges around. Instead do what you love. Heal yourself. I guess what I am doing everyday might help you guys out which requires less efforts yet the best peace you will ever experienced. As I earlier said staying fit is important so I am regularly doing my yoga session so that I will be easily identified when I go out after the lockdown (Lol). So try atleast once in a day that you workout may it be yoga, aerobics or zumba or anything that you prefer. Secondly, I am watching every Sunrise which gives a new hope to me that everything is going to be fine. Just take a few minutes do watch sunrises with no chaos in your head. As the day goes down and it’s time to the sunset I just lie down on the terrace in the evening and observe the things going on in the surrounding. When you just sit down quietly, you will hear birds chirping which will hit your heart hard. The best feeling I have experienced. The light breeze of the air is another best feeling you will experience in the early morning and in the late evenings. The fourth thing I am doing  is spending time with the family which I missed from last 7 months. I never got such free time to sit down and talk with the family especially my siblings. We have fun, we play indoor games like ludo, chess and some rapid fire. The fifth thing I am doing is analyzing  myself because I have just passed my graduation I need to find a good opportunity for a turn to my career. I guess there are many out there who planned to run out to different cities as soon as their results get declared but the lockdown as set them to stay home and they are clueless now because all the plans are messed up. It’s okay to get the plans being messed but stressing out won’t help. Just do what your heart says. Do what you always wanted to do but couldn’t because of lack of free time. It’s okay even if you just lie down and stare at the walls rather than stressing about doing some productive things. If you are comfortable so do as your heart says. Listen to the music when your mood goes down. Happiness lies in small things that you do so forget about what others are doing and all the social trends. Just be you and take small steps towards the things that makes you happy and enjoy your quarantine phase. Spend less time on the electronic devices as the excessive use may harm you. Lastly, stay home and stay safe everyone.

Take Care,

Pranali

Introduce Yourself (Example Post)

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You’re going to publish a post today. Don’t worry about how your blog looks. Don’t worry if you haven’t given it a name yet, or you’re feeling overwhelmed. Just click the “New Post” button, and tell us why you’re here.

Why do this?

  • Because it gives new readers context. What are you about? Why should they read your blog?
  • Because it will help you focus your own ideas about your blog and what you’d like to do with it.

The post can be short or long, a personal intro to your life or a bloggy mission statement, a manifesto for the future or a simple outline of your the types of things you hope to publish.

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  • Why are you blogging publicly, rather than keeping a personal journal?
  • What topics do you think you’ll write about?
  • Who would you love to connect with via your blog?
  • If you blog successfully throughout the next year, what would you hope to have accomplished?

You’re not locked into any of this; one of the wonderful things about blogs is how they constantly evolve as we learn, grow, and interact with one another — but it’s good to know where and why you started, and articulating your goals may just give you a few other post ideas.

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When you’re ready to publish, give your post three to five tags that describe your blog’s focus — writing, photography, fiction, parenting, food, cars, movies, sports, whatever. These tags will help others who care about your topics find you in the Reader. Make sure one of the tags is “zerotohero,” so other new bloggers can find you, too.

Introduce Yourself (Example Post)

This is an example post, originally published as part of Blogging University. Enroll in one of our ten programs, and start your blog right.

You’re going to publish a post today. Don’t worry about how your blog looks. Don’t worry if you haven’t given it a name yet, or you’re feeling overwhelmed. Just click the “New Post” button, and tell us why you’re here.

Why do this?

  • Because it gives new readers context. What are you about? Why should they read your blog?
  • Because it will help you focus your own ideas about your blog and what you’d like to do with it.

The post can be short or long, a personal intro to your life or a bloggy mission statement, a manifesto for the future or a simple outline of your the types of things you hope to publish.

To help you get started, here are a few questions:

  • Why are you blogging publicly, rather than keeping a personal journal?
  • What topics do you think you’ll write about?
  • Who would you love to connect with via your blog?
  • If you blog successfully throughout the next year, what would you hope to have accomplished?

You’re not locked into any of this; one of the wonderful things about blogs is how they constantly evolve as we learn, grow, and interact with one another — but it’s good to know where and why you started, and articulating your goals may just give you a few other post ideas.

Can’t think how to get started? Just write the first thing that pops into your head. Anne Lamott, author of a book on writing we love, says that you need to give yourself permission to write a “crappy first draft”. Anne makes a great point — just start writing, and worry about editing it later.

When you’re ready to publish, give your post three to five tags that describe your blog’s focus — writing, photography, fiction, parenting, food, cars, movies, sports, whatever. These tags will help others who care about your topics find you in the Reader. Make sure one of the tags is “zerotohero,” so other new bloggers can find you, too.

Introduce Yourself (Example Post)

This is an example post, originally published as part of Blogging University. Enroll in one of our ten programs, and start your blog right.

You’re going to publish a post today. Don’t worry about how your blog looks. Don’t worry if you haven’t given it a name yet, or you’re feeling overwhelmed. Just click the “New Post” button, and tell us why you’re here.

Why do this?

  • Because it gives new readers context. What are you about? Why should they read your blog?
  • Because it will help you focus your own ideas about your blog and what you’d like to do with it.

The post can be short or long, a personal intro to your life or a bloggy mission statement, a manifesto for the future or a simple outline of your the types of things you hope to publish.

To help you get started, here are a few questions:

  • Why are you blogging publicly, rather than keeping a personal journal?
  • What topics do you think you’ll write about?
  • Who would you love to connect with via your blog?
  • If you blog successfully throughout the next year, what would you hope to have accomplished?

You’re not locked into any of this; one of the wonderful things about blogs is how they constantly evolve as we learn, grow, and interact with one another — but it’s good to know where and why you started, and articulating your goals may just give you a few other post ideas.

Can’t think how to get started? Just write the first thing that pops into your head. Anne Lamott, author of a book on writing we love, says that you need to give yourself permission to write a “crappy first draft”. Anne makes a great point — just start writing, and worry about editing it later.

When you’re ready to publish, give your post three to five tags that describe your blog’s focus — writing, photography, fiction, parenting, food, cars, movies, sports, whatever. These tags will help others who care about your topics find you in the Reader. Make sure one of the tags is “zerotohero,” so other new bloggers can find you, too.

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