Love?What does this four letter word mean?Is it something that breaks or heals a heart?I guess this four letter i.e. “LOVE” does both.It depends on the situations and understanding about it.Some people gets hurt falling for one while some gets healed.Love is something that happens unknowingly and is a beautiful experience to go through.
According to the google search,’Love’ is a feeling related to attachments/affection towards someone.I don’t know what this word actually means?Easy to read the word but hardest when you go for it & try understanding it.I see people falling in love everyday.They fell into it and out after a period of time.Is it really love that fades as the time goes on?’Breakups’ and ‘Heartbreaks’ are major topics to gossip on now.Every new day a heart breaks.You can also un-love someone strikes me as amusing.
The romantic movies and my grandmother’s stories which everyone love and are fond of tells us that the perfect match are made in heaven but I see matches are being made on ‘Tinder’ & ‘Happen’ and are named as perfect match but not in heaven!So Is heaven retired from this beautiful job or the new technology is more trustworthy?I always wonder how are the matrimonial sites different from the online shopping sites?I see love being expressed with cheesy texts,everyday dates,gifts and how it has became synonymous with sex.
I see how people are falling in love with the bodies,with the shape,with the color of them.I see the beautiful poems piled up with dust in corner because Shakespeare’s lovers are now bae’s and babies.I look for albums but they tell me the photos are now live on social media.
I see people having crushes,new day new crush and are flirting because they don’t want to fall in love.Why? Valentine’ day is all about gifts,buy me one and I will be yours forever.Is this ‘forever’ really a forever?Is this love then?If this is love then I am better off alone.Maybe I will forever be a dreamer believing in my delusions of getting handwritten letters and most important someone’s time.
Maybe I will forever be the misfit who thinks forehead kisses are much better than any other.Maybe I will always prefer long walks and not the long nights in the pubs. Maybe I will always want our dates to be not with the highest bills in a fancy restaurant but with the highest happy memories & the place doesn’t matter!
Maybe I will never want his wallet of money but his bag full of hidden demons he has been carring for so long.Maybe every weekend we will do a movie marathon sitting in pajamas than roaming in those malls wearing those high heels.
Maybe I will always make a cup of tea for him when he wakes up in the middle of the night scared because his fear & insecurities gripped him & not visiting a doctor/psychiatric for healing it. Tea does a great job I guess than the big big tablets!Hugs are so underrated but are the best and most effective one than the salines/injections in healing fast.
I will be the love I never received.I still don’t know what love is?All I know is object,materials and exchange of it,is not love.It amuses me and sometimes also feel bad that people are failing understanding the term love.Now a days infatuation are termed as love which is delusion of someone or their feelings.People need to understand the difference.
I don’t know what love is?But I would always prefer honesty,trust and time not the high cost gifts,movies/coffee dates & long long fake promises.
Give your reviews on love.And help me understanding it!